Domestic Violence: He Says If I Take The Job Offer There Will Be More Trouble

I will turn 28 this year and June 2014 will make my marriage 5 years

I got married during NYSC and i have two kids. 

 I'm married to an extremely abusive man in every
sense of d word. Is
it physical, emotional, verbally and what not.

Before the end of last year, I made up my mind I was

 going to leave my husband this year.

How?? I don't know, cos I have no money in the bank.

 For 4 years plus now we'v both been jobless(my case, he doesn't want me to work, his

case.......... a very long one ). We v been leaving from hand to

mouth, at the mercy of families and friends, our rent is three years

overdue, school fees a term overdue and so many things in the house

requiring fixing. Please I want LmE readers to help me analyze my

predicament.

I got a job offering  today and I don't know whether to take it or

leave it. Cos my husband said he's not stopping me from working but i will

not be in his house and work. I have no money yet to get a place of my own

 Please help me, what do I do??